A friend and I were talking one day. I was telling her how I’ve been told by several married ladies without children that they are not really looking forward to motherhood because of how all their mommy friends speak negatively about their daily hardships. This of course broke my heart because although I have some extremely difficult days, the joys of motherhood far outweigh the trials. This was back when I wrote Be A Grace-Filled Communication Pioneer and the follow up post to that. It was at this point that she told me, “I think there’s a book that just came out about that same topic.” And believe it or not, there was! Fit to Burst: Abundance, Mayhem, and the Joys of Motherhood by Rachel Jankovic. I read the excerpt online and ordered it immediately.
Now, sometimes (okay, many times) I do things a little backwards. I read this entire book and LOVED it, and then I realized this was the second book she had written. So, as I write this review please show me grace because I have not read her first book, Loving the Little Years. I plan on ordering it very soon and I’m confident I will enjoy it just as much as I did this one.
With humor and sincerity, Rachel Jankovic encourages mothers to let Scripture define our theology of motherhood instead of the way we were raised, what our cultures deems as appropriate, or even how we feel in the moment. She provides analogies and illustrations in every chapter that just about any American mom can relate to. The chapters are short and simple but packed full of phrases, quotes, examples, and helpful tidbits that I want to tattoo to my forehead so I don’t forget them. She covers a variety of topics from mommy guilt, getting our strength to endure from God, how to handle hungry kids and a home that just won’t stay clean, keeping perspective about nutrition, how to best help your husband love his children well, living a humble and vulnerable life in front of others (even when it’s a mess), and even how to have a sense of humor in the midst of discipline. I really just can’t wait to get my hands on her first book.